Showing posts with label BREAKING NEWS. Show all posts
Showing posts with label BREAKING NEWS. Show all posts

Sunday, July 24, 2016

MEND working to free Henry Okah, avengers' affiliate tells FG


A new twist has emerged from the crisis in the Niger Delta region as Ultimate Warriors of Niger Delta ( UWND) , an affiliate of the Niger Delta Avengers (NDA) , alleged on Sunday that the Movement for the Emancipation of the Niger Delta (MEND) , which recently unveiled the names of some respected leaders from the region to negotiate on behalf of militants, is only working to free Henry and Charles Okah.
MEND had earlier in the day confirmed that it was in talks with the Federal Government to end attacks on oil pipelines in the Niger Delta region and urged the Federal Government to ignore NDA, whose members it described as criminals.
In their response to the characterization of NDA members as criminals by MEND, UWND accused it of only being interested in freeing its leader Henry Okah, who is presently languishing in a South African jail and his brother, Charles, who is being held at the Kuje Prison in Abuja.
The militant group said in a statement by Sibiri Taiowoh, its spokesman, that it would not be part of the MEND Aaron Team, as there was no longer any militant group called MEND in the region.
According to UWND, the current MEND otherwise called Aaron Team 2 was a concoction of the Okah brothers and family, adding that it has not given them (MEND) the go ahead to negotiate for them.
“Our attention have been drawn to statement credited to defunct MEND that is now an internet-based group of jobbers and we want to let the public know that the MEND that we know under which the likes of Tompolo, Boyloaf and other ex-warlords operated has since be disbanded by the group of ex-agitators who were registered under the Amnesty Programme.
“The sole aim of this so-called MEND and the flaunted Aaron Team is to get Henry Okah and Charles Okah pardoned under the Presidential Amnesty Programme. But they have forgotten that the Okah brothers were actually the ones who tried to sabotage the amnesty programme initiated by late President Yar'Adua and former President Goodluck Jonathan,” UWND said.
While accusing MEND of trying to sneak into the renewed militancy through the back door, the militant group added, “We are against the MEND Aaron Team arrangement because it is utterly against our mission and their aims is in conflict with ours.
“What they are pushing for is freedom for the Okahs which they trying to use to sabotage our agitations for resource control, rapid development, and freedom for the poor people of the Niger Delta.”
“MEND was nowhere when this new face of the struggle started so they should stop trying to lord over us. What is happening is that MEND is trying to leverage on the renewed crisis to press for the release of the Okahs through the Amnesty Programme which the duo failed to support at inception.
“We pity the statesmen that the so-called MEND is assembling under their concocted Aaron Team 2. It is better they all back out from the Aaron Team plot because the government is not prepare to commence the dialogue from their perspective.
“We are not going to hand it over to MEND to constitute team for us. If the government truly wants to dialogue; the grandstanding by the so-called MEND might be a clog. This is our position,”.


Tuesday, July 12, 2016

David Cameron Gets Hustled Out of Downing Street, but the Cat Stays

The only member of the household on Downing Street to be spared the indignity of one of the fastest political transitions in recent memory will be Larry the Cat, a tabby who holds the title of chief mouser to the cabinet office.
The sudden victory of Theresa MayBritain’s home secretary, in the Conservative Party’s leadership contest on Monday put Prime MinisterDavid Cameron in the unenviable position of having to vacate his residence in about 48 hours. A large blue moving van pulled up on Downing Street on Tuesday to retrieve the Cameron family’s belongings.
It is a rite of passage Britain has experienced many times, but one that is unfamiliar for most Americans. In the United States, a newly elected president has more than two months — between Election Day in early November and Inauguration Day, Jan. 20 — to set up a new administration.
Transitions in Britain are far swifter. A prime minister typically takes up official residence at 10 Downing Street upon getting the job, as Mr. Cameron did in 2010, when his Conservative Party took power after 13 years of Labour Party government.
But the transition can seem even more jarring when a prime minister takes office without a general election. This occurred most recently in 2007, when Gordon Brown succeeded Tony Blair, and before that in 1990, when John Major took over from Margaret Thatcher.
“The prime minister has said he is glad there will not be an elongated leadership process,” a spokesman for Mr. Cameron’s office said in a phone interview on Tuesday, speaking on condition of anonymity because of government protocol. He noted that the need for stability engendered by Britain’s vote to leave the European Union had created a sense of urgency. “This is how British democracy works. When the leader changes, the prime minister changes, and the evacuation of the premises soon follows. It’s a quick departure, but it is what it is.”
Mr. Cameron led his final cabinet meeting on Tuesday. On Wednesday, after his final prime minister’s questions in Parliament, he will visit Queen Elizabeth II at Buckingham Palace to tender his resignation. Shortly after, Ms. May will be granted an audience with the queen and invited to form a government. She and her husband, Philip, will most likely pose for a photo in front of 10 Downing Street with Mr. Cameron and his family, as their predecessors have done.
Larry the Cat will be staying, the government spokesman said wryly, adding that Ms. May would inherit the tabby, adopted from an animal shelter in 2011 to help address a rat problem.
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Monday, July 11, 2016

DEFENCE PROCUREMENT: BUHARI MAY SACK INTERIOR MINISTER

AS THE Presidential Committee on Defence Equipment Procurement in the Nigerian Armed Forces concludes its task and is set to submit its report to President Muhammadu Buhari this week, there are indications that the president may sack his Interior Minister, Lt. Gen. Abdurahman Danbazau, over his alleged indictment on the report. A highly placed security source, during the weekend, told Nigerian Pilot that the president was not happy with the security briefs he had received so far on the report and is willing to sacrifice the embattled minister to ensure that Nigeria is free of corruption. The source further added that among former army chiefs and other top officers of the Nigerian Army, there were attempts to doctor the report but the panels members resisted. According to the report, the security source said that the committee, which was set up by Mr. President to probe the procurement of arms, ammunition and equipment in the military from 2007 to 2015, said several top retired army officers were indicted and some were already scheming to suppress the content of the report. The source, who described the report as “damning” and “explosive,” said some retired top army officers indicted included present Minister of Interior, Abdurahman Bello Dambazau; the immediate past Chief of Army Staff, Kenneth Minimah, and his predecessor, Azubuike Ihejirika. It is alleged that Dambazau was particularly trying to suppress the content of the report. He was appointed the Chief of Army Staff by late President Umaru Yar’Adua, and served between 2008 and 2010. “The committee members are putting things together and will present its findings to the president in the next few weeks or so,” the source said. According to the report, it was reliably gathered that the committee uncovered a whole lot of things, including the outright stealing of funds meant for equipment for the army, inflation of contracts, diversion of money for soldiers’ welfare, money for the rehabilitation of barracks and military facilities and many other corrupt practices. It would be recalled that in March 2016, the committee, predominantly made up of retired military officers, had summoned 292 retired and serving top army officers, including Generals Dambazau, Ihejirika and Minimah. Last August, the president also directed the National Security Adviser, Mohammed Mongonu, to set up a 13-member investigative committee on the procurement of hardware and munitions in the armed forces from 2007. A statement by the special adviser to the president on media and publicity, Femi Adesina, stated that the investigative committee’s mandate was to identify irregularities and make recommendations for streamlining the procurement process in the armed forces. The establishment of the investigative committee was in keeping with President Buhari’s determination to stamp out corruption and irregularities in Nigeria’s public service, Mr. Adesina said. “It comes against the background of the myriad of challenges that the Nigerian Armed Forces have faced in the course of ongoing counter-insurgency operations in the North-East, including the apparent deficit in military platforms with its attendant negative effects of troops’ morale. “The committee will specifically investigate allegations of non- adherence to correct equipment procurement procedures and the exclusion of relevant logistics branches from arms procurement under past administrations, which very often resulted in the acquisition of sub- standard and unserviceable equipment,” the statement added. Recently, the president ordered the arrest of the former Chief of Air Staff, Adesola Amosu, and other top officers of the Nigerian Air Force, after an interim report of an inquiry into the procurement of equipment uncovered widespread diversion of funds and fraud. Those indicted by the report were former National Security Adviser, Sambo Dasuki; former Chief of Defence Staff, Alex Badeh, and another former Chief of
Air Staff, Mohammed Umar, and other top officers, who are all facing corruption charges in the court. “The procurement processes were arbitrarily carried out and generally characterised by irregularities and fraud,” the panel said. “In many cases, the procured items failed to meet the purposes they were procured for, especially the counter insurgency efforts in the North -East. “A major procurement activity undertaken by ONSA for NAF was that concerning the contracts awarded to Societe D’ Equipment Internationaux, SEI, Nig Ltd. “Between January 2014 and February 2015, NAF awarded 10 contracts totalling nine hundred and thirty million, five hundred thousand, six hundred and ninety dollars ($930,500,690) to SEI Nig Ltd. “Letters of award and End User Certificates for all the contracts issued by NAF and ONSA respectively did not reflect the contract sums. Rather, these were only found in the vendor’s invoices, all dated 19 March 2015,” it said. The panel said some of the award letters contained misleading delivery dates suggesting fraudulent intent in the award process. The observed discrepancies are in clear contravention of extant procurement regulations. The SEI contracts included procurement of two used Mi- 24V Helicopters instead of the recommended Mi-35M series at the cost of one hundred and thirty-six million, nine hundred and forty-four thousand US dollars ($136,944,000). “However, it was confirmed that the helicopters were excessively priced and not operationally air worthy at the time of delivery. A brand new unit of such helicopters goes for about thirty million dollars ($30million),” it noted. Furthermore, the helicopters were delivered without rotor blades and upgrade accessories. “Additionally, the helicopters were undergoing upgrade while being deployed for operation in the North- East without proper documentation. It was further established that as at date, only one of the helicopters is in service while the other crashed and claimed the lives of two NAF personnel. “The committee established that ONSA also funded the procurement of four used Alpha-Jets for the NAF at the cost of seven million, one hundred and eighty thousand dollars ($7,180,000). However, it was confirmed that only two of the Alpha-Jet aircraft were ferried to Nigeria after cannibalisation of engines from NAF fleet. “This is contrary to the written assertion of the former Chief of Air Staff, Air Marshal AN Amosu, to the former NSA that all the four procured Alpha-Jets aircraft were delivered to the NAF. “The non-militarisation of the Alpha-Jets made them unsuitable for deployment to the North-East and they are currently deployed only for training at NAF Kainji. “Furthermore, the procurement of the Alpha-Jets was contrary to the recommendation of the assessment team.” “The committee found that the conduct of Air Marshal Amosu was deliberately misleading and unpatriotic,” the panel said. Amosun and two other senior air force officers arraigned before a Federal High Lagos are already telling the court that they are willing to settle on plea bargain. In a related development, a highly placed EFCC source yesterday confirmed to Nigerian Pilot that the commission was waiting for the official submission of the report before the operatives of the commission would swing into action.

IBEDC Staff Electrocuted in Ilorin

A technical staff with the lbadan Electricity Distribution Company (lBEDC) in llorin was electrocuted on Thursday evening.
Eyewitnesses told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in llorin that the deceased, Rasheed Garna, was electrocuted while carrying out repair work on a damaged breaker in llorin.
The eyewitnesses said the incident happened at the lBEDC transmission station at the Sawmill area of llorin.
Scores of symphatisers were sighted at the residence of the deceased located at Egbejila in Ilorin.
Some of his neighbours, who spoke with NAN, said the deceased had just moved to his new house during the Ramadan.
lBEDC Communication Manager, Mr Ayodeji Bada, while confirming the incident to NAN in llorin on Friday said the deceased was electrocuted while on official assignment.
Bada described Garna as a dedicated staff and a complete gentleman.
He said Garna was in the team carrying out repair work on a damaged breaker which had thrown residents of the area into darkness for over a week.
Bada, who described the incident as unfortunate, commiserated with the family of the deceased.
The Police Public Relations Officer in Kwara, Mr Ajayi Okasanmi, also confirmed the incident to NAN on Friday.

JAMB releases new grading system for candidates



Few weeks after the Federal Government scrapped the post-Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examinations (UTME) as a prerequisite for admission into universities in the country, the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB) has released a new grading system for the 2016/2017 session.
In the new system candidates seeking admission into universities would be awarded points according to their scores in JAMB and performance at the West African Senior School Certificate Examination (WASSCE] and Senior School Certificate Examination conducted by the National Examinations Council (NECO).
Points that would accrue to candidates, according to the official grading system released by the body, are as follows:
JAMB SCORE GRADE POINTS
180 - 185 ——————         20 points
186 - 190————————    21points
191 - 195————————-  22points
196 - 200———————-    23points
201 - 205———————-    24points
206 - 210———————      25 points
211 - 215———————-    26 points
216 - 220————————  27 points
221 - 225————————  28 points
226 - 230————————  29 points
231 - 235————————   30 points
236 - 240———————-   31 points
241 - 245———————-    32 points
246 - 250————————  33 points
251 - 300——————    34- 43points
300 - 400—————     44-60 points
As stated in the new grading system, candidates that had single sitting of WASSCE or NECO SSCE would be awarded 10 points, while those that had their results at more than one sitting would score only 2 points. Also students with A1 in subjects offered at the SSCE would score six points, B2 and B3 would garner four points, while C4 - C6 would be graded three points. The new system has tended to collapse the admission process into one though the universities will still decide the cut off marls for various courses.
Reacting to the new development, the Vice President, Association of African Universities (AAU), Prof  Olusola Oyewole, said the Committee of Vice Chancellors would study the development and make its positions clear at the right time. He said it would be too early to judge the new policy even when it has not been implemented to ascertain how fair it would be to the university system.
Oyewole, who is also the Vice Chancellor, Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta  (FUNAAB), said the policy has to be studied before further comments.
The decision to scrap post-UTME was reached at the 2016 Combined Policy Meeting on Admissions to Universities, Polytechnics and other higher institutions in Nigeria. The Minister of Education, Malam Adamu Adamu, while declaring open the meeting, said since the federal government and stakeholders had confidence in the examinations conducted by the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board, JAMB, there was no need for other screening examinations by  universities.
Reactions poured in torrents across the country. Some described the decision as a drawback to the concerted efforts to improve the quality of students admitted into the nation's universities, while others hailed the decision as one that would restore the  autonomy of the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB).
Seasoned educationist and Proprietor of Afe Babalola University, Ado Ekiti (ABUAD), Aare Afe Babalola, (SAN), described the decision as a regrettable mistake, noting that many of the students admitted into Nigerian universities through JAMB were not only academically deficient but also unfit to justify the high marks scored in JAMB examinations.
Also, former Vice Chancellor, University of Lagos (UNILAG), Prof Tolu Odugbemi, held similar opinion. He said the decision to scrap the post-UTME without proper research was ill-conceived and utterly worrisome. He maintained that universities should have the right to admit suitable students based on relevant and objective criteria.
Former Vice Chancellor, Nnamdi Azikiwe University (Unizik), Awka, Prof Boniface Egboka, said the emplacement of the post-UTME was widely discussed in the public and accepted for use by Nigerian universities.
He noted that large number of students pass JAMB exam every year, but further screening often reveal that they were not qualified. He argued that conducting the post-UTME allowed universities to select the best out of the mammoth candidates.
A contrary view was expressed by the former Vice Chancellor, Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida University, Lapai, Niger State, Prof. Ibrahim Kolo, who warned that Nigeria cannot allow itself to veer off the lane of international best practices in educational development.  He said the credibility of examinations conducted by the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB) has improved remarkably over the years, which had over-ruled the essence of further post-UTME tests by various universities.
Kolo explained that the use of external monitors, security agencies, paper and computer test approach, and n computer based test (CBT) had greatly improved the quality and reliability of the results of JAMB examination.
'Indeed JAMB has taken the lead already in adopting measures to overcome genuine challenges associated with the use of technology for ease of public transactions in Nigeria while encouraging other public examinations to begin the CBT approach. The problem with us is that we are most often not patient enough to allow innovations to work, even when it is in tandem with international best practices', he said.
When contacted on phone on the new process put in place by JAMB, the PRO of University of Nigeria, Nsukka Chief Okwun Omeaku, said that the university authorities met on Monday before the Sallah break to deliberate on the new point mode of admission.
He said that they would reconvene by next Monday before issuing a statement on it, saying that the institution has no choice than to obey the new directive.
Chief Omeaku also said that the new admission mode is fantastic as it would eliminate fraud as well as ensure that the best-qualified candidates get admission.

Saturday, July 2, 2016

My take on dating Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa guys — Queeneth Agbor

My take on dating Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa guys — Queeneth Agbor

By Rotimi Agbana & Adeyeri Aderonke
*What she will do if her husband is not good enough in bed
*What refusing a director sex cost her
Fast-rising Nollywood actress, Queeneth Agbor, courageously took the bull by the horn when she relocated all the way from Calabar to Lagos to pursue her dream career, acting. Riding on the crest of divine grace and providence, the sensual actress has since been on the rise in the Nigerian movie industry. In this chat with Showtime Celebrity, the sultry actress, who visited Vanguard’s office in Kirikiri unravels a lot of interesting secrets about her childhood, career, sex, love and life.
What was it like coming from Calabar to Lagos?
It wasn’t that easy for me at first, you know Calabar is a small and calm city compared to Lagos, which is a busy city characterised by a lot of hustle and bustle; traffic everywhere, too many people. It wasn’t easy but with time I had to acclimatise and settled into the system because I came to Lagos for nothing else but to pursue my dream and so I had to settle in real fast. It’s been God all the way, it’s been fine, I thank God for everything. I didn’t have accommodation challenge because I had a cousin that was living in Lagos so I stayed with her for a while before I got my own apartment. My cousin was there for me, she assisted me in acclimatising with the Lagos life.
How would you describe your career so far?
Wow! If I’m to describe my career in one word, I would say ‘great’, because it’s been God’s grace all through. I didn’t just start acting after relocating from Calabar, I had to enroll in an acting school because I had the passion for acting but I didn’t have a background in theatre arts. I had never been in front of the cameras or where a movie was being shot, so I had to enroll in an acting school for three months after which I was chosen for a lead role at the first audition I went for. It was actually a short movie, so that really gave me the courage that I was on the right track, though there were occasional challenges along the way. There was a time I was picked for a sub-lead role alongside Tonto Dikeh, after being given the script I was later dropped for someone else just because I refused to have sex with the director.
I told him I couldn’t do it, even for the role, because I didn’t choose acting as a career to do things like that. Before I started acting, I had already heard a lot about the industry, but I decided that I wasn’t going to stoop so low as to have sex with a producer or director for a movie role, after going to an acting school to acquire the needed skill for the job. I didn’t come all the way from Calabar to Lagos for that, so because I refused I was asked to drop the script. I refused not because the guy was ugly; it was about what I wanted, if I began sleeping around for a movie role, how many times would I have to do that and how many people would I have to sleep with? I just couldn’t do it.
Having sex is actually not a bad thing, but having it in that context means people won’t value you for you, this is a career that you don’t use sex to climb the ladder of success. It’s a different thing entirely if you ask me out on a normal day and I like you, that’s quite different. But when I have sex with you for a movie role, it means I’ve lost my value, I’ve lost all the respect I’m supposed to get from you or any other person.
The thing is, the moment you have sex with one person for a movie role, it will be difficult to stop.
You may have to continue having sex for all your jobs and you will lose focus. It’s okay if you have sex with your boyfriend, but not just anybody, because you should have your self-worth as a lady. After this episode, I posted something on Facebook about my experience, within a short while, a marketer I’ve never met before contacted me, sent me the script for a job, without even knowing me from Adam, and that was it. I didn’t have to sleep with him or do anything naughty. I went to Asaba to do the job; I worked with this man without him making a single pass at me.
How would you describe sexual harassment?
It’s normal thing for a guy to want to have sex with a girl, but at a point where you want me to pick between two options all because you want to have sex with me, like I go for a job interview and you want to have sex with me before I can be employed, that’s sexual harassment. Why put me in such precarious situation because you’re in the position to give me something I really need? That is sexual harassment, pure harassment. Of course, it’s not bad to admire a girl, because as a girl if no one admires you in a day then you have to go back to your village and wash your head. I have never slept with a director or producer for a job. Funny enough, a year after, that same producer whom I refused to sleep with later called me for a series of jobs. In fact, he recommended me for several other jobs without asking for sex or even making a pass at me.
At what point in your career did you feel you were on the right track?
Remember I said earlier that I was given a major role at my first audition. But when I actually began to feel I was on the right track was when I was called up for another job after being dropped by one producer because I refused to have sex with him. I felt so bad after that experience, but when I was called for another job shortly after, I said to myself “this is God at work”. When the film came out, my picture was on the jacket and poster, I was so happy because I felt like I was getting there. People began to call me from Calabar saying they saw me on the poster and jackets of a new movie, I was very excited. At that point, I believed there was no turning back because I felt I was on the right track. All these happened in 2013, between that time and now, I’ve played lead roles in several good movies, such as Hooked, alongside Francis Duru and some Ghanaian actors, where I had to speak with the Ghanaian accent, and many others.
Which movie would you say was the most challenging, and why?
I’ve not played a movie role that gave me so much challenge; in fact I’m still looking for that movie role that will break me. Though the movie I just finished shooting was a little bit challenging because I played a dual role, I was a double (twin) in the movie, the two characters had two different personalities and attributes. So it was not so easy switching between two characters, it was a bit difficult but not challenging because I’m still looking for a movie role that will be really challenging for me. Yes, every movie role has its challenges, don’t get me wrong. There was a movie in which I had to cry, like cry really deep, it was difficult for me to stop crying on set because I found myself immersed in the character I was playing. Even after the movie shoot I was still feeling the character’s pains, so I just kept crying. That wasn’t the only time I felt so attached to a role I played. For every role I play, I try as much as possible to place myself in the shoes of the character; this would help me to act out the role as I’m supposed to. Movie is make-belief, so you have to assume the nature and character of the role you’re playing.
In Nollywood, how do you get into a character to be able to play the role effectively?
If I’m given a script to act as a doctor, all I’ve to do is pick a particular doctor and study him; he may not even know I’m watching him. I can just pay him occasional visits in the hospital and study his daily routine, mannerisms and other things, that way I’ll be able to have a better perspective what I need to act the role effectively. As an actor, you watch people a lot, there’s something called memory box, if I see a madman on the street I study him and store it in my memory box because it would come in handy anytime and when you don’t even expect.
What made you believe you had the talent to act?
As a child, I was always mischievous; I could be whatever I wanted to be. As a growing child, if you sent me on an errand and I didn’t want to go, I could feign sickness right on the spot, like serious sickness that you would believe it. Immediately you ask me to go and sleep you’ll see me laughing and playing almost right away. I acted my way to adulthood, if I didn’t want to go to school or do something, I knew how to act my way out if it, and so I was known to be a drama queen.
How do you feel when you are given a role where you have to kiss?
Always remember that acting is make-believe, I can kiss you now and feel nothing. As far as its action on set I can kiss anybody, there’s nothing attached after the director says “cut”. And if after you come to me and say hello I can slap you. There’s no attachment to the kiss, it’s just the job, it’s a script. I’ve had to kiss a guy I hated, from the first time I saw him on set I hated him, but I had to kiss him during the movie shoot, it’s my job and I had to do it.
Have you ever experienced chemistry on set?
No. But it happens though, kissing one actor or the other has always been the same for me. I’ve not seen that actor that I shared chemistry with on set, maybe it’s my mind. It’s possible to have a crush on a big actor and then when you see him on set it’s gone, you begin to see him as a colleague and not a crush. There are times when I’ve had to kiss so deep on set, but I’ve never given any guy that power over me to make me develop chemistry with him on set.
Can you go nude on set?
No, I can go under the bed sheet but not nude. Even for 10 million dollars I wouldn’t go nude on set (laughs).
You once said you will never date an Igbo guy again because your ex-boyfriend slapped you when he saw you kissing on set and he was Igbo. Kindly shed more light on this
I have nothing against Igbo guys. Not dating an Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba guy is a personal decision. I have gotten a lot of threats since the statement was made, so I wouldn’t want to talk about it. After I said this, a lot of people asked me what is with Igbo guys that I hate? The truth is, Igbo guys are domineering, and they have the tendency to be violent. They have this crude mentality of women being totally submissive to a man, the slave-like submission and I hate it.
If you have the opportunity to choose a tribe to marry, which tribe would it be?
When I start thinking of marriage I will give that a consideration. I have as well heard things about Yoruba guys that they are philanderers. At the appointed time, that is, when God says it is time, I will choose, but for now, I can’t say. On a second thought, I think I want to transfer my gene elsewhere. Mind you, I have dated a Fulani guy before (laughs).
What would you do if after marriage you discover you husband is not good in bed?
I’ll cut corners. Even God will understand but I will still love him. It’s not like I’m mean, it’s just understandable that sex is important in marriage.
What is your take on sex before marriage?
The truth is the bible forbids it, but I need to know what’s in the package before I get into it. Not to discover after marriage that the package is not good. That’s why some girls cheat. Imagine on the first night together after marriage and you are on the bed waiting for the action but he knows practically nothing, you then find yourself saying “Jesus! How did I get myself into this?” Two month later you are looking for the next available option, a hawk to catch as an escape route. If you had tasted the package you won’t fall such a victim. That is why I feel you have to taste it even if it’s once (laughs), Just a taste at least. I can’t cheat when in love though.